Hello there to the genuine Gentlemen I know and to those who I have yet to meet. Welcome to my end of month blog. My name is Elle and I hope that all is going well for you in your lives. I would like to THANK YOU so much for your time to read my blogs,it really means a lot to me and for those who follow my blogs each month I want to give you a massive THANK-YOU and to say to you please stick with me, my blogs are a journey and I know that in time my writing will improve I am determined about that. It is my intention here to entertain, enlighten and hopefully inform while being totally honest about myself yet be 100% discreet about others... Now then lets get started with this end of the month Blogs... To start off I will as always tackle the lows of the month and here we go.
Lows; Well this month seeing as things were so quite, I decided to get the builders in to lay nice new big floor tiles throughout my flat...It was a massive job lots of dust and noise but still it is done now. I missed out on quite a few bookings which was a bit frustrating but then what choice did I have. My place looks wonderful now, no more outdated un hygienic wooden floor boards and it is about time. It is like I have a brand new flat now, very expensive bit it has made me very happy and cleaning the floors now is lot better and easier... Any other lows let me think... Nope I dont think anything much comes to mind...
Highs; So happy to to have reconnected with a dear friend who I have not seen in ages. The legendary Misty McCain stayed with me for three days and it was just like old times. We easily picked up from where we left off, infact we have an even better friendship now because there were too many people around us before. She was an amazing house guest and I hope that she will visit again. What a lovely lady with such a great energy and she made me laugh and open my eyes to a few things. Everyone we meet I believe teaches us something about ourselves even if sometimes the experience is not a great one. It is of course much nicer if the experience is a nice one, I have had some vile experiences with some people - but those hard learned lessons were really helpful in avoiding even worse situations and people after. I have great relation with everyone who has ever lived with me -I am currently looking for a nice flat mate - my previous flatmates stayed with me for years and have written be really nice reviews. A few ladies who I have met were sadly a bit strange and I suspect were into drugs so they did not work out well unfortunately. It seems a bit hard to find the right lady to live with but I will keep trying, I would rather live alone than to live with anyone I do not like. I like most people by the way. I am certainly not a diva in that way,but having said that I do not want to live with any lady who might have a negative effect on me in any way. I dont mind if the lady is antisocial as long as she is to the most part clean living fair and easy going. One thing I am most proud of is the fact that I have and maintain long term amazing friendships with people. I believe that says a lot about a person and I love all my many friends.
Lets ask Elle a Question; What sort of personality qualities do you posses that make you a successful escort ? Answer: Well I think that I am not ruled over totally by money, dont get me wrong I love to be able to pay my bills just like everyone else I am sure. I think it is an art form to be able to communicate well with people. I will never meet with anyone if I am in a bad mood or I am not well of course. I like to be a warm person and I love to put nervous clients at ease. Being attractive is one thing but as an escort it is not something that I totally rely on. Personality is far more important, a beautiful escort soon can look ugly if she is a total bitch. An a plain looking escort can look like a movie star if she is kind sexy warm and friendly. It is also important to be entertaining, have more skills than simply being just a girl friends experience and be able to talk on a wide array of topics.
1. How did you get started as an escort?; I was sitting having a glass of wine with a girl friend in the Mandarin hotel in Singapore and we were talking about how expensive the wine was and that we probably wont be able to afford to buy any more. In the chair behind us was a gentlemen named Mr Nathan who owns and runs the long established escort and hostess agency High Society or Ambassador promotions. He gave us his business card and we started work with him and we certainly had more than enough money to buy ourselves what ever we wanted. I am always in close contact with Mr Nathan, the last time I went to Singapore I visited him in his office on Orchard Road and I cried - it was an emotional meeting, this man is part of the reason i am so happy with my life. If ever you are in Singapore look him up his number is the same...7377811
2. What is the easiest £100 you have earned? I guess being tipped which happens, it is a lovely gesture from a client and very much appreciated.
3. Is there one book you have read or movie you have seen as an adult that you wish you could share with your younger self? Maybe something written by Anthony Robbins, his books are a good positive read.
4. What is the best piece of advice someone has given you about being an escort?; Earn and save and pay your taxes.
5. What song do you listen to that makes you feel strong?; Any thing with an up beat and that has a catchy tune to it with meaning is always a good motivator.
6. What is the most embarrassing thing that has happened to you when on a date with a client?; I guess period blood on white sheets once or twice.
7. What is the most memorable gift you have received from a Client?; A massive shopping spree I will never forget that... I learned a lot about high end brands from a client who really knows a lot about ladies fashion.
8. Have you ever had a full blown relationship with a Client?; Yes I would say yes I have, but there was an good understanding that I would continue to have my fees paid.
9. What is the best thing about working in this industry?; Well I love my job and that for me is the best thing about working in my industry. There are so many people who are totally miserable in their 9 to 5 jobs and I do feel sad for them. But I dont feel sad for them when they try to put shame on me for the wonderful career that I have and will continue to do for as long as possible. I love my freedom, each day is different and the money is fantastic! 10. When is the best time to catch you in a sexy mood? I am a morning and day person but I like early evenings too. I dont like super late nights.
11. What is your biggest turn off?; Rude arrogant bullies, cant stand people who are mean and I do the best I can to stay away from them all of them.
12. What is something you have tried, but will never do again?; Trusted a client to pay me for an over night the next day and this of course did not happen so I was basically robbed. That will not ever happen again to me.
13 Elle what questions would you like to be asked for the sake of conversation that are not too intrusive during our booking? Answer: I would like it if there are more questions that "normalize" being an escort as a real job. As long as civilians consider that what an escort does for a living is a total mystery and to continue mystifying us the longer we will be victims of misrepresentations and meanness from the general population. I wish that some enlightened people would put an end to the whole shame about what we do for a living, it is so boring being misunderstood.
Subject Matter; Elle what dont you like about being an escort? Answer: I dont like the old fashioned negative attitudes that some civilians still have towards escorts. I hope that it will all change one fine day and I hope that the virus has helped to change some peoples hateful attitudes. I consider what I do for a living is an essential service. If I have absolutely no negative thoughts about what I do for a living, then what business is it for others to judge me in any way? do they pay my bills ?. Everything is on my terms I am not being sex trafficked and I pay my tax. All my escort friends pay their dues so we are all legitimate. I will not put up with nasty people in my life, I am far too happy and I intend to continue in that way. Some clients believe it or not have these redundant negative attitudes even though they are paying for my time they feel that they need and have the right to try to run me down or lecture me in a negative way about what I do for a living. I am able to defuse this kind of thinking by say simple " BUT I LOVE WHAT I DO " Honestly how many people can honestly say that they truly love their jobs ? Well look at me folks I can and when people know that I am not walking around hanging my head down with in shame they cant vent their redundant attitudes onto me. Once again and just for the record I REALLY DO L0VE MY JOB EVERY SINGLE LITTLE BIT OF IT !!!
I am a firm believer of pacing my self and to do this I am not one to put financial gain over and above my health and peace of mind. Many times I have turned away bookings for reasons perhaps that I might not be feeling 100% or I am out with my friends and just want to let my hair down and have some fun or for another reason that I might not want to work on that particular day and time. Money is certainly not everything and seeing as I am offering such intimate services it is vital to me that I am in the right mood and frame of mind to be able to extend the very best service I can possibly deliver.
Of course when I first started work in London I was a working like a female warrior and I loved it going out and about on all sorts of adventures and yes I was totally unstoppable and I was very very pleased with myself - My confidence was sky high and I felt totally emotionally unpentratable. But after a few months I really felt burnt out and I noticed that seeing as I was always in a rush I was not really engaged and living in the moment with my clients kind of disengaged and I do not feel that was fair on me or on my clients.
So I reduced the number of clients I would see and have continued to do this because I view being an escort I am in my career for the long run as a long term career. Yes it is easy to make a lot of money fast and furiously but to what gain if I would get burnt out and possibly miss out on the opeprtunityes of engaging regular clients. ? I also decided to create a plan B which I did and then that was not enough so I created plans c and d and e which I love. Thgere are a lot of ladies wh fibd it very difficult to stop being an escort because those ladies perhaos spent all the money they made on high fahion etc Other ladies really put a lot of value on the money that they earn and save and even invest the money very wisely. Once an escort starts to work they can find that thier whole perception of money changes dramically. I always like to think I have been super wise with my finances and I have indeed planned very well with my future.
Pet peeve; Finding the right flat mate in London it seems is not an easy person to find. I have had three trials and so far no luck. I cant live with unhealthy people or those ladies that take drugs or are alcoholics - Its been a very stressful time what with the virus and everything - I did not realize that there was so much alcohol and drug abuse going on - well I know now and I want no part of it least of all anyone under the influence each and every day = NO Thanks I would rather lie alone forever if thats the case.
Final say: Elle what is your favourite type of client ? I adore easy going and obviously generous clients. Also those clients who except that I am offering a genuine and honest adult service to them and they have no negative issues with me doing that for a living.
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