Sex crimes and the police.
Hello there to the genuine Gentlemen I know and to those who I have yet to meet. Welcome to my end of month blog. My name is Elle and I hope that all is going well for you in your lives. I would like to THANK YOU so much for your time to read my blogs,it really means a lot to me and for those who follow my blogs each month I want to give you a massive THANK-YOU and to say to you please stick with me, my blogs are a journey and I know that in time my writing will improve I am determined about that. It is my intention here to entertain, enlighten and hopefully inform while being totally honest about myself yet be 100% discreet about others... Now then lets get started with this end of the month Blogs... To start off I will as always tackle the lows of the month and here we go.
Lows; Just all the creepy people who are trying to take advantage of the vulnerable during lockdown and because of covid its a vile way to behave and shame on them for being such wankers. I have heard on the news that the elderly are the prime targets and that is just so unfair - I get stupid emails almost every day of people trying to scam me for my banking details and passwords etc all that we can do is to block them each and every single time what else can we do other than that ? I am still looking fir a nice clean living, easy going and professional escort flat mate to share my spacious 3 bedroom/ 3 bathroom property ASAP, its getting ridiculous being here alone with all this space , call 07810805745 for more details .
Highs; Well things are getting better I feel, advance bookings have been confirmed with 50% deposits received, which gives a lot of peace of mind. Really looking forward to when I can travel to Berlin with Lydia.
Lets ask Elle a Question; Hey Elles whats with the 50% deposits ? Answer; A potential client texted me the other night when I informed him I was fully booked and he then said well if you get a cancellation just let me know I am willing to meet you, I informed him that its hardly likely that I ever get a cancellation due the the fact that deposits are made. I love this system there is a lot more peace of mind and even now my dentist down the road for where I live is only taking on appointments with a deposit to secure the appointment and if the client does not show up absolutely no refund no matter what the reason . Times are changing folks and its time that we all keep up - if a client has an issue with sending a deposit via his bank or is afraid of a paper trial its an easy thing to do to send over and Addison Lee courier this has been done many times and has not failed for years.
Subject Matter; This months blog will be a rather controversial one but one that has been a long time coming I feel specially from me. I firmly believe that of course the sex crimes against women and probably unreported sex crimes against men too has risen and obviously I feel it is because sex workers are off the clock. It baffles me why non one is mentioning this indisputable fact. I also believe that sex workers which includes tantric masseuses and and indeed Mistresses too are essential workers and should be given the rightful respect for doing a very important and challenging line of work. I have been listening to the news a lit this month and I have been saddened to hear about all the police antics going on but actually none of this news surprises me. What we are hearing is about the unlawful ad dismissive attitudes from the police towards civilian women - But I can assure you a lot worse unreported treatment by the police goes on towards sex workers male and female no one is spared and yet all the sex workers that I know are legitimate tax payers often with mortgages and even children to raise . I wonder why there is no word about the disgusting vile treatment that a lot of sex workers have had to endure at the hands of the police . I also am aware that the government is upping its safety for the streets of UK with more CCTV more police and the list goes on and on which no doubt we the tax payers will get fleeced for . My suggestion would be for the government to work with sex workers to stem the problems at the source - I dont know of any sex worker/ escort who has not had a police man as a client . If the government gave more support to sex workers then obviously we could do our job much better which I firmly believe would reduce the sex crimes etc. I also heard that there was mention of creating a curfew so that after 6 pm men could not go out. I would say that if a man is inclined to make a sexual attack on anyone that they would find a way around this curfew so I believe that this suggestion rule is a redundant one. Not all sex workers are sex trafficked by the way most of us love our work and we are just as human as you all out there - we are not mystical creatures or aliens we have the same basic needs as any civilian and we too have feelings. Just because we can and have the ability to do a job that most civilians do not have the confidence or courage to do - does not mean that we should be treated like sub humans with no rights. When will the attitudes change towards us ? I can say that I would love to make a few reports myself and name a few names too - but I am only going to feel safe enough to do this action when and if things get better or if I end up leaving London to live in another country as I plan to do by relocating to Berlin.
Pet peeve; Its a dangerous time when lockdown will be lifted because everyone will be trying to make up for a lot of lost time and so we must all stay vigilant because a lot of people will be acting and behaving out of character just to make ends meet in a financial way. I see the writing on the wall and I think it is a very very good idea to keep your head
Final Say; Below is some very helpful info I copied from a website - so it is not my writing but I fully agree with everything written, so FYI happy reading.
SPOTTING TIME WASTERS
We all get them from time to time and you can't always spot them but, like any other business where taking appointments is the way its done, you will have the buggers. Even my local doctors has one of those signs that pleads with people to cancel appointments they cant make so time is not wasted, so it's clearly a nationwide issue!
This business may attract more than its fair share of time wasters for many different reasons, however. For example, some guys like to get off on the fact that a girl is running around after them, some may just like the fantasy of making a booking but have no intention of going through with it, some people don't agree with escorting (shock horror – no really!) and like to try and make life difficult for girls. Some escorts get jealous and/or have no sense of basic personal or business ethics, so its been known for them to get male friends to make false bookings with their perceived competition.
There are many reasons for people to waste your time and they should not be confused with genuine cancellations which, whilst a bit of a pain, are inevitable as the sort of clients you attract may well have jobs that take them away to a different area at the last minute. People do become ill and of course most of us at some point in our life have conflicting commitments which may mean we can't keep to an appointment time.
The genuine ones will call and let you know and most likely will rebook but for those who are not genuine and are pure time wasters, you need to keep a note of their details so you don't keep falling for it. It's up to you how many chances you give someone who continually calls to cancel a booking; maybe you could ask for a non-returnable deposit of it happens a lot or you could just refuse to take the booking. Again, as an independent, its up to you.
Listed below are some of the views of working girls on time wasters. Of course genuine people may use them too so don't be taking it as gospel but do use it as little voice on your shoulder when assessing what is genuine and what is not.
Timewasters are…
"The ones that insist on sending a picture of their dicks… doh why would we want to see that, not like we have not seen one before and for me personally It does nothing for me… apart from turn me off that is… I have never known one book."
"Those asking you to send explicit pics to keep them going till they see u… I never send them but others could advise if they actually ever book and show up"
"Those asking for a picture showing my face… no chance and they never book when I decline to send one"
"The 'how much for a fuck' and such like… prolly kids"
"Those that have read your profile, im talking about AOL now then e.mail you and say, I cannot access your website, can u send me your address please, Oh yer like i fell off a Christmas tree"
"When he asks if you can take a big cock or claims he has a huge one"
"when you have exchanged several e-mails, arranged a booking and he STILL wants to phone you, just to 'talk about the appointment'. Hmmm……" [Note: some clients will genuinely want to speak to an escort before an appointment to suss her out in the same way smart escorts suss out clients on the phone before meeting them – but this phone call does not need to cover any sexual topics so if he rings just to talk about what you're wearing, hang up and cross his booking out of your diary asap!]
"There was one chap who thankfully no longer calls but was apparently looking for someone to swear during the act, and always finished the conversation by asking you just to swear at him over the phone… never booked."
"Then of course there are the ones you can hear the slaop slaop slaop at the other end… if they want to talk dirty I just give them my premium rate number"
"When they phone you and ask what your rates are Durrrrrrr its on the website. When they phone and say 'oh my mate gave me this number' oh yer right in that case ask your mate to give you the website addy."
"When they phone you and ask how big your tits are, oh FFS lol"
"When they say oh you will luv seeing me im handsome, and have a big dick, yes so what."
"why is is that whenever I'm sitting there as a nurse or maid the bastard doesn't turn up! FFS! due to this i rarely agree to dress up at all now as have probably had only 2 guys turn up after requesting outfits in the last 12 months."
"Time wasters are:
guys who say 'I'd like to see you for a couple of hours…or maybe all night if we really get on'
guys who say 'I'm looking for a lady to see on a regular basis'
guys who say 'I've never done this before, how would you see the evening progressing?' [Note: This is a great time to tell them to send all their questions in an email – if they're genuine-but-nervous, they will email but if they only want to fap to your voice, they won't bother!]
guys who say 'I want you to arrive with just stockings on under your coat' [Note: These ones may even plan to hide and watch/film you wandering around the hotel/street, so be extra careful here]
all the guys in the Punterlink Chat Room, they're looking for free sex chat, or to look at your web pix and wank later knowing they 'talked' to you"
"How about 'Can i have some details please'?? – D'oh, use your imagination if you want to toss yourself off.
"Guys who say, 'Can you describe yourself please?',
'Have you not seen my website?'
'Yes but my computer crashed before I got a chance to look at your site'
Yeah, really!!! I suppose you made a note of my number.
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